Why Do We Use Foul Language?

Have you ever asked yourself this question? Were you mad, sad, or maybe even happy? Did it ever occur to you that cursing shortens your days on this earth? Doesn't make sense does it? Well, you're a believer right? You love God. Serve him. Read your Word as much as you can. . .right? Well, either you know it or not, there are consequences of foul language. Now, I'm not gathering up this information from random thoughts. This is scripture. . .Word from our creator. Jame 3:6 state how bad language can speak nothing but wickedness into your life. It can also corrupt your entire body. Sounds crazy? Here is the evidence. "And the tongue is a flame of fire. It is a whole world of wickedness, corrupting your entire body. It can set your whole life on fire, for it is set on fire by hell itself." Now you must ask yourself, what is the point of cursing? Are you using it to hurt someones feelings or to fit in? And again, " And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!" James 3:10. Colossians 4:6 reads, "Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone." With this being said, I, with no doubt, believe that foul language is a sign of death. First, you can destroy yourself and people around you. Make the choice today to use positive language, so not only you can prosper but you can speak wonderful things into the lives of other people.

Pray it. Post it. Change it.
Cursing does not proceed out of my mouth. Today, I give God FULL charge of my tongue. By his grace I will only speak words that will bring honor to His name.
[ Courtesy of book, Taming Your Tongue in 30 days]

So It's Been Awhile . . .

Okay, I never realized how much I miss my blog! I don't ever want to neglect it EVER again! A lot has happened since I've blogged. I have so much to share with you guys! I hope you enjoy!

Independent Women

Yesterday, I accomplished something only an independent women would urge themselves to do. Honestly, I am not women of extreme HARD labor type gal. But sometimes we do what we gotta do, right? Well, story was I needed to put a desk up because I know that if it stayed in the box behind my door, it would stay there FOREVER. So after asking a few men to do the task, I said "forget it!" I opened the box, and looked at all the pieces. . . I took a deep breath and got ready to tackle this three tier desk that I just had to have. Being said, my uncle walked in and told me he would help me later because he had greater things to do,of course, like sit in the garage and stare and. . .NOTHING. So me being miss ambitious, I told him I would do myself [with slight feisty-ness]. I started it, it was easy at first. Then, of course the confusion came. . Well, I asked God to give me the strength and finally, I got the hang of it. My mom walked into my room with total amazement, she couldn't believe I put this desk up. The only words I had for her was, "There's nothing a women can't do" Amazingly enough that was total encouragement for her.

Now, I am totally inspired to talk about the independence of women. Well, because there are a LOT of them out there, including myself. What do you consider independent? How does it make you feel more of a woman? What did you have to go through to become independent? These questions came to me simply by observation and experiences. First, my mom raised me until she met my step-dad before then, she showed me that being a women of "your own" was quite alright. Of course, I craved nothing more but to be just like her. I guess there is nothing more satisfying than being able to do ALL on your own -- even a man's job. The self doubt that is instilled within us, along with doubt from other people usually drives the desire of independence. Now, for the men, what makes an independent woman attractive? Better yet, when has it gone too far for you? Especially if you are dating a women of such? Go ahead, don't be shy!

Good Morning

Goood Morning!! Goood Morning! Blessed Be The Name of THE LORD! I hope all is well this moring! Everything is GOOD on this side of town. As of right now, I'm doing research, listening to my gospel music -- best way to start my day! Well some new things to share! Got a new hair-doo. Yu like?? lol Anyway, I'm just posting! I think I'm going to cut this whole '10 post intro' situation short! This being my last! Are you ready for the FUN to begin!?! I'll be sharing some words of wisdom, relationship advise, & daily stories!! Well until then! Be blessed!

--Brittneyyyyyyyyyyy .

*UPDATE as of 6/30/2010*

*UPDATE -- 6/28/10*
HBE'S VERY OWN BOII STREETZ WEB PRIMIER OF SHAWTY WATZ THE DEAL .

The Re-Birth of Brittney Talida Nelson

Photography by Stella Simona -- www.StellaSimonaPhotography.blogspot.com

Extraordinary Gal

This picture inspires me. Not just because its Ms. JSP herself, but because it says A LOT about my own style. I guess its a twist on being called the "black sheep". For a long time, I always felt that way. Aunts and cousins always called me "skinny minny" or "pencil". LOL yes, pencil. But I was made for style and fashion. The "black sheep" simply turned into the white dove. Now, that I stick out like a sore thumb, its impossible, to not wanna copy myself. ;D

The Blessing & The Curse?

This beautiful boy right here was given to me August 8Th, 2008 at 7:41 PM. Yes, my son. Caleb Scott Christopher Nelson-Hardy. Why does he have so many names you ask? LOL! Well, I wanted him to have names that were extremely universal. This kid has MANY personalities packed into one. To be mad and sad is a complete understatement for this lil boy. He's totally "over the top" with his. Literally, he loves to act, sing & dance. Imagine a 2 year old boy saying "Oh My Gosh!" like Usher or hittin' his dougie like his uncles. God blessed me with someone who will take life by the horns, fear God, & take care of his old lady! . . ME!

My Life's Ventures!

So now you are probably wondering what I do, in detail.
Life is a canvas-- I'm the painter, & my masterpiece is coming out beautifully. I love people, so pleasing them is something I am for; in the correct manner, of course. First, to please God, you must love his people. No matter how harsh or hurtful they are. It is evident that they need love as well. Therefore, every avenue in my life that occurs success & business is geared toward-- people.

For example, I want you guys to understand that modeling is not a gain for myself. I don't even like to call it modeling because I am not doing it for my own personal gain. That comes last for me. I am doing it because I want to set a tone, something that's going show young girls (the people) that being respectful to yourself & image is VERY important. I also want them to know that success is created through strength. I believe this because strength shows you can do things without exploiting yourself.

Second, the business women in me, overrides everything. I am always looking for new ways to set standards & goals. My every thought on success & business comes from God. He wants me to reach his people in so many different ways, that I thought were impossible. Honestly, every time I reach someone or change their perspective on things; I am witnessing to them. Best of that, something is being instilled in them, without them even knowing. The light of God.

Allow Me To ReIntroduce Myself

Hello!

Ohkay, finally I am settling down on this blog situation! Everyone wants to get to know Brittney, personally. So here is your chance! Be excited. First off, I want to thank you guys for gaining interest in me. I am a humble, God-fearing being. I Love people, Fashion, Art & anything that motivates my life! Shall I give a lil bio on myself?

I am 21 years old, mother of Caleb. Employee for USPS, faith tither & church goer. Wait, let me rephrase that, faithful servant. God is my first & only -- Everything. Fashionista, business- women, role Model & huge fan of Sarah Jessica Parker. My life is a story, you shall read it before you judge is dark cover. My light shines so vividly. Pay close attention.

Until then . . be B L E S S E D.